Why Men Do Polygamy?
Ladies, are you
hurt when your men marry another woman or some other women? You probably get hurt and like to blame
your husbands for doing that. You may say that they are wicked, evil-hearted, and
cruel, but you have hardly ever thought about some things stimulating them
doing polygamy.There are several reasons that lead the men to do polygamy.
One of
the plausible reasons why men do polygamy is that their wife cannot give birth after
marriage. It is actually possible to adopt a child
or children from orphanages, but the men want to possess a child or children
that are given birth by their wives themselves. For them, it is importantto
have blood son or daughter in order to upholdthe existence of their blood in
their families. The presence of a child or children givesmany advantages in the
future of their lives. Who will look after them when they and their wives get
old are their children. Who will be heir of their treasure so that it is not
debatable in their family are their children. Who will carry on their
successful business so that it will be running well are their children. In a
simple word, children are investments for the future.Moreover, having
descendants is a feather in one’s cap as they are gifts from God. Thus, when
the wife cannot give birth to a child or children, it leads the men to do
polygamy.
The next reason that causes men to do polygamy is that the men do not find well-fulfilled biological need
in their marriage. It could be that the wife is a career woman who is very busy
with her businesses and works so that she does notreally care about her husband sexual
need.
When the men face that condition they will be encouraged to find well-fulfilled
biological need from another woman.Then, one of the ways to get the legality of
the marriage with another woman is by doing polygamy.
The period of menopause within women’s reproduction is
also logical reason that affects men to do polygamy. When the women come to the
age between 45 and 55 years old they will have no high passion to have sexual
intercourse. They will be hardly stimulated while doing that with their
husbands. Meanwhile, the men do not have this period, the passion of doing
sexual intercourse is stillhighly owned by the men even they are in their late
ages. The almost absence of the woman’s passion will reduce the passion of the
men to do it with her. It is because while having sexual intercourse the men
sometimes needpassionate woman to reach the climax.
The wife suffering from sexual diseases also make her
husband tend to do polygamy. As a normal man, a husband certainly requires
sexual need in his life. This need cannot be able to be fulfilled in which his
wife is infected by a disease in her sexual organ. If the sexual intercourse is
done by a couple that is one of both is infected by a sexual disease, it is
very likely that the other one is going to be infected. The man realizes about
this predicament and they will no longer do it with her wife. Then polygamy
becomes the man’s choice to solve.
When a man does
polygamy, people should not take him for granted as a bad man seeing that many
causes considerably urgent.The men sometimes are justified to do polygamy in
order to get one of his needs, sexual intercourse is fulfilled well.
by KhulafaurRosyidin and DewiRositasari
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